In a relationship, one of the most important tools for success is good communication. With the development of the internet, communication methods have begun to change drastically. The use of landline and cordless phones has dwindled; most teenagers and young adults instead use cell phones. Letter writing has been replaced by the much faster and more convenient electronic mail (e-mail). Instant messaging and text messaging have developed as a way to keep track of what your partner is up to, as well as ease communication through long distances. It is obvious that the internet has altered practices of courtship and fidelity; through the use of interviews (high school students, college students, and adults) and observation, I have determined that the advantages of these new communication methods outweigh the disadvantages when it comes to courtship and fidelity.

The advantages and disadvantages listed under the Old Communication Methods and New Communication Methods pages are taken from the interviews I conducted with high school students, college students, and adults.